Love encompasses all pain and suffering.
We never love without pain for nothing is forever. Love lost is painful and love will be forever lost. To love is to boldly go beyond the threshold of what we knowingly control because to love is to become vulnerable to our own decisions as well as the decisions of others.Love always brings pain and suffering for someone because nothing lasts forever; time does not stand still and that which lives, dies and rots into the earth only to become a memory of a happier time.
Not long after my oldest son died, 6 months I think, My #2 son was born. A friend of mine seen me holding him and asked me,”Seva, how can you love that little boy so completely after the pain you have suffered from the loss of your eldest son?”
I just told him that I want this boy to feel alive as I have felt alive, even in the pain, I felt alive. To love is to experience life in all its splendor. To feel the pain is to know what love has given us and know that it was worth it even with the pain of sorrow & grief.



